Tyr, we need to get to know each other :lol:
This is a sort of problem for me.
I finished up a theological high school (actually a classical gimnasium but under the patronage of catholic priests and their theological techings). I know a lot of priests (even our cardinal) but institution is just not for me.
I have a ritual to go every sunday woth local priest to lunch. I wait for him till the mass is over and then we go. I don't go into church and my mother still gets pissed at me. And after the lunch with priest I go to a coffee with local hodja. And we talk about religion and they never force me to anythings. They are even pleasured with my choices. At least I know what I beleive in.
Funny thing also, my roomate's father was a priest. A franciscan. And my roomate is like me.