that's the problem with BM: if you try to do something different with the genre, people just attacks you saying thousand of bad things about you. Happened with CoF. Happened with Dimmu Borgir.
anyways they are some BM musicians that obiusly thaty are not like that all the time
an example can be Stefan from graveworm, he is like the coolest guy on earth, he likes soccer he chat with the fans and he is like a normal guy with an exellent voice.
and he is not alone wen Dimmu Borgir came here my boyfriend go out with them (to a table dance
) but they have fun and they goof around and stuff like that
and I have been read stories like that from 1349 and Emperor the fact they act in the videos or in stage like real damage people that dont mean that they are like that the whole time
another example Angela Gosow ( I know she is not in BM ) she acts in stage, but out stage she is a swett kind person
so I like Black Metal, I like The Stage Performance and I like to goof around